How to Divide Chores

Tired of bickering with your partner about chores? Unequal chore division can build resentment. These steps will help you divide chores and argue less.

  • Write down a list of all chores large and small.
  • Next to each chore, write down how long it takes to complete each one.
  • Then each partner should initial the chores they are responsible for.  If it is a shared chore, mark it as shared.
  • After you have tallied the results, see if there are areas that can be more evenly distributed. 
  • It’s a good idea to repeat this exercise every year or before problems arise.

Instead of listing how long a chore takes, you can rate the difficulty on a scale 1-5.  This can work for those chores you just hate to do. 

The chore list is also a helpful negotiation tool to refer back to.  You might consider swapping chores, taking on extra chores as a gift or exchanging chores for favors. 

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