Tips to overcome the emotions of children who began to explode.
Child’s emotional control is not easy. Furthermore, if the emotions in a way that hitting very troublesome, such as kicking, and slammed his toys, or screaming and crying in the crowd is expressed. Expression of feeling, as it is commonly called a tantrum. However, the actual temper tantrums are not seen as something negative. This is because the growth period of children aged 1-3 years, it is considered normal.
When we get older the child, he began as a rule, to build confidence and learn about other people, objects or themselves. He wanted to learn self-control, to express themselves and the environment more than he actually is able to overcome. Errors in dealing with road rage, you lose a good opportunity on how children, to return to normal emotions (anger, frustration, fear, resentment, etc.) are responding appropriately to teach.
Also how to act in an appropriate manner so as not to injure themselves and others when you are feeling the emotion. Harvey Karp, MD, an expert on parenting, pediatrician, assistant professor of pediatrics at the University of Southern California Keck School of Medicine, USA, say, the prefrontal cortex (front part of the brain) that helps to control your emotions, are developing not until the child reaches the age of about four years. Karp showed that infants as those who act to live in caves. “If they are angry, they were to behave like savages against you.
They spit, scream, scratch and throw objects, “he told the Web site WebMD. To deal with these prehistoric creatures Laksana infants, has Karp two rules of keys, namely fast food ruledan toddlerese rule.” Fast Food ruleberarti that every time you speak with someone who is angry, let him go away by themselves first, and you recognize their feelings before action, “said Karp.
What toddlerese rule? These rules encourage you, with your child’s tantrum by using the language of children, which is saying something over and over again with a short sentence that reflects perasaannya.Tentu with the addition of body language and facial expressions that fit to speak. If you change your child’s food choices of fried chicken meatballs, for example, do not say, “Sorry, honey But you said earlier to the mother, if you want to eat meatballs.”.
You should have told him, “You said the mother was, as baseball, baseball, I would not want goreng.Aku chicken patties, meatballs kepengen gitu.Muka you really are.” If he sees you and calm (and he would do it, promise Karp), which is a cue to move his own agenda. Say “yes Eat burgers, chicken baseball today.” Karp said, is never too early to start with this approach. “In fact, children aged one to respond to this technique.
Talk by acknowledging their feelings and their language, you can help them to focus more on cooperation, respect and attention, “says the author of the book and DVD series” The Happiest Baby on the Block / The Happiest Toddler on the Block ” is. The most important thing is to remain calm and not panic. Displays the feeling that you are frustrated (children yelling, screaming, pinching) is in the face of a child’s tantrum to make more complicated. Children are the emotions that parents get to feel it could lead to children’s emotions come to be so tempersemakin.
A child who has a tantrum can not accept the incentive. He is just reacting to negative actions, nor ignored. How is it best to leave it and it is on his side to stay hug, or hold your child in a loving way.
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