Texting Teenagers

Can you control what messages that are coming to your kids cell phones. In today’s society we try as parents to keep the drama away from our kids. But now what happens if your child gets a text message from a friend of his or hers that’s not appropriate for children rather its a joke,sayings,poems. What happens after this how can you handle this matter.

All we can do as parents is keep going to work pay the bills and move on with our lives. People to can be nasty on how they challenge an issue with kids I saw a situation of two kids who where very good friends and one of the friends got a text message from another child this joke was not for kids of course. But the one adult choose to be so aggressive about that matter and tell the other parent that there kids do not need to be in touch anymore, this is a rash behavior and I can not imagine what was to determine that level of behavior but this is how things went and now a friendship has been ruined between parents and children, why because one child did something without thinking.

I could use your opinion what do you think about this matter, is this some kind of nonesense causing a child to end there friendship because of a text message that another kid sent. The kid can be punished how do we as parents deal with this type of headache other parents contacting you flipping out on the phone over text’s this is a crazy thing to deal with because we over look some thing because we are to busy doing our own stuff working,cleaning the house, paying bills we get very distracted with everyday life and the teens are sitting on there can and getting themselves into drama we have no idea whats going on until its to late, then what happens parents start trying to make there child out to be the good too shoes and that is not what its about.

Defining the problem getting together and exchanging idea’s on parenting without insulting other parents there is a way to address the problems you see, without making a mockery out of this situation, first thing is cooling off and not blowing up about this matter having a sitdown and discussion about whats going on, this generation of parents are lost themselves I am not saying all are but a good percentage is a challenge to deal with and very hard to explain anything to once they have an opinion they run with it instead of having a discussion about things. So I hope we all have gotten a point out of this and not having a brutal way of words and having a peaceful conversation without being unjust about how you talk to people this is the way to handle matters not blowing up once you find out things, because if your children are affraid of you now, they will never be upfront with you, you should build a relationship with them that they can talk with you first.

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