Some women are trying to prevent their kid’s fathers from seeing their children. Divorce is never easy, but the children are used as pawns and tools of manipulation to punish a man over, and over and over, as a woman I am often disgusted by other selfish women.
On many question and answer websites, and forums, it is not uncommon to read a mother’s plea asking for help on how she can stop her ex from seeing their children. Some requests are not as bad as others, while some clearly have no basis for their request. Often times it is related to money, the ex has not paid child support so the parent with the kids wants to prevent that person from seeing the kids.
In general I find these requests appalling. My child’s father passed away when she was 5 years old, she will never see him. How dare these women deny their child the right to see their father.
In many cases the man has the short end of the deal as it is, he takes the kids Friday night to Sunday afternoon – effectively killing any plans he has for going out on the weekend, while the mother is off having herself a good time.
Of course in some cases, such as where the man is violent towards his children, the woman should try to prevent the kids from being left alone with him, but all this selfish behavior as got to stop.
In general though these women are being selfish or petty.
Recently a question came up on WebAnswers in which the mother was concerned because her son was in the habit of leaving his bed and crawling in with her, she was worried that he might do this at his fathers home, claiming that the father had a new girl friend. Dear readers – do you see the problem here?
Had she stayed with the boy’s father, and not trained the boy to stay in his own bed, this would be a problem either way, so to suggest preventing the kids from going to see their dad because of a habit she created is absolutely petty!
So many simply ask if they can prevent the dad from seeing the kids because he owes so much money. How fair is that. The kid is the one who is ultimately punished, but perhaps the mother sees a way she can manipulate it so that the father looks like the bad guy again, rather than her looking like a petty woman. Granted he should have paid his support, but let us be honest here, many men are required to pay more support than actually goes to the kids in the first place.
So to all those women seeking to screw their ex over on his visitation rights, I just ask you what is your motivation? Are you acting as a result of a concern for your child, or some selfish need to destroy the man you once spread your legs for?
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