Women can not tolerate step children. Men may show dislike for step children but the length to which step mothers go just to torture the other children in their lives a living hell is quite abhorring. Why do women hate step children so much? Why can’t they stand the sight of another woman’s children yet entertain those of neighbors and strangers?
It’s not the step children’s fault
Woe unto those children who are brought up as step sons or daughters for one reason or another. It isn’t their fault that their mothers or fathers died, it isn’t their fault that their parents separated, and it isn’t their fault that at some point they were left with one parent, but more often than not they live through hell, thanks to the women into whose life they fall when the inevitable happens.
Step mothers from hell
Never wish for your child to fall into these women from hell, never wish for your son or daughter to encounter the terrorism that they spew like venom for he or she will never know peace, for she or he will never grow up with confidence.
Women hate step children
Women hate step children, they hate the other children left in their care when the real mother dies or is divorced or for whatever reason is not available to bring up her own children. I have never understood why they hate these children so much when at times they are more welcoming to those of the neighbors and even complete strangers in the home.
Is it because of the other woman?
Could it be because step children remind their men of the other woman who gave him these children? Could it be because these children are a bridge to a past they would rather forget? Why should the poor children pay for mistakes that weren’t theirs in the first place? Why should they pay when their mother is to blame for dying or separating for some reason from their dad?
Is it because of inheritance?
Do these women mistreat the step children out of the fear of losing out on the man’s inheritance? Do they fear that their own children may get a smaller share of the will at the expense of their step children? Are these children seen as competitors in all matters to do with the will? Even if they are, whose fault is it?
Step children don’t deserve this cruelty
Step children have seen it all. Their fingers have been burned and pricked with needles, they have been tortured like animals in captivity, they have been poisoned time and again, they have been strangled, they have buried alive by their step mothers yet the law is silent on their plight and the actions of these women who mistreat them go unpunished for more often than not they fear the repercussions of ever reporting this cruelty to their dads and have to suffer in silence, most of the time their daddy loves their new mother from hell and will not hear their own version of the story and they have either to shape up or shape out. They become strangers in their own home; they become outsiders under their own roof, a roof that was at one time filled with maternal warmth, a roof that held a lot of promise for a brighter future for them that now dims before their own eyes.
Why do women hate them so much?
When will step mothers let these poor children rest, when will step mothers treat these children a little more humanely, when will men who they call fathers wake up to the realities that take place right under their noses?
My heart cries out to all of them. I know what they go through and just wish women were a little more understanding, a little more tolerant, a little more humane to these poor children. They have never known peace on earth through a fault that wasn’t theirs and will never be theirs. Why do women hate these children so much?
Published in: Family