An understanding of the less well can damage the emotional and psychological parents when communicating with their children. No matter how well the words and phrases are intended, in fact the intention is not like what he heard the children. This means that child abuse interpret the words or phrases that parents say.
Sometimes when we are angry out the wrong words such as “you’re naughty” when the words should be spoken is “do not do it anymore because it is not good. ” Or, when excited as the kids perform for example, “you best” when it should is “you should be proud of your labor. “
Saying the wrong words can give a false sense also in children who can not digest that sentence. It turned out to be a good parent must keep learning.
Parents should really be able to listen to children and acknowledge the outpouring of heartache, fear, or anger. They, too, will feel able to cope and find solutions to the problem that it faces the future.
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