Personal Space for Moms and Dads!

Personal space  always desired between moms and dads for keeping their marriage and mutual relation intact. Every human being aspires for fulfillment of own development and to keep their identity.  After marriage and becoming parent, moms and dads devote their personal time for raring their children, they neglect their own desires and interest which gets in back seat.  Slowly their own desires and interest gets compromised, and they tend to lose interest in their relationship, this in long run leads into undesired circumstance. They fall in the vicious circle and get into boredom and life becomes monotonous.  This might lead in losing interest in their mutual relationship and tend to go wayward. This can also lead to divorce, having relation outside their marriage.  So personal Space is highly recommended for getting out of the vicious circle and enjoys mutual relationship and respecting each other identity.

Importance of respecting mutual personal space

Prior to marriage and becoming moms and dads, everyone pursue their own interests  and desires whether it is sport, craft or meeting and spending time with different friends. This gives them pleasure, self satisfaction, relaxation above all to keep their identity.  Some moms and dads have interest in sports, some in marketing and buying various items for themselves, some moms and dads have interest in spending with their friends in clubs or visiting night clubs. But when they’re united in marriage and have children, their own interests and desire gets secondary.

They begin to feel compromised and prisoners and feel the boredom from their marriage. So both the partners (Moms and Dads) should understand the need and the importance of giving breathing space and personal space for their own interest. In marriage both husband and wife are two wheels in the vehicle of marriage and both have equal rights and freedom. Understanding and mutual respect of each other’s independence, showing of empathy towards other partner’s interest and desire help in strengthen their own relationship.    

In present time when both husband and wife are perusing jobs, personal space becomes very critical. Each individual has certain ego and self-esteem. They are interested in their own development, own career enhancement, spending time with their friends, doing things which will give them pleasure as well as satisfaction.

Under such circumstances personal space plays very vital and significance aspect for strengthening their relationship. Relationship should be enjoyable, it should not become a burden in they’re marriage. Both husband and wife should respect and understand that here is a person made up of flesh and blood not a slave or robot. Each partner should be able to fulfill their desire and interest as well as keeping and respect each other interest and desire.