Show that mothers are interested in what your child did. Your child wanted mother’s attention.
Visit your child and comment on what she was playing “Whoa … ade around the beam again ya, ya want to make a tall building “. This will help your child learn the value and meaning of ‘reciprocity’ which will be an important provision for a relationship in the future.
Encourage your child to show her feelings. This is important as a preparation for a healthy relationship. A healthy and positive relationship is determined by the ability to show feelings and to understand the feelings of others. Appreciate and recognize the feelings of the child to practice the sensitivity of instinct. When feelings respected, it will exercise empathy and respect for others. Mothers should also show maternal feelings for your child know what mothers feel. “I appreciate that eating ade clever” or “I would be sad if ade sick”.
Give your child the opportunity for establishing relationships with peers. Encourage your child to a family gathering event. There the little ones can play with cousins or other relatives of his own age. Your child need to practice to learn to share, take turns, resolve conflicts and enjoy friendships.
Another important provision is self-confidence. Children who have strong self-confidence, will have a strong desire to learn new things and face challenges. Self-confidence is an important provision to socialize at a later date. Mothers, fathers or caregivers who daily along with your child, have a very large role in shaping and fostering a sense of confidence.
Mom can help build confidence little by applying the daily routine. Scheduled activities will lead to a sense of security and confidence. Your child will understand that after a shower, he must eat, so your child will prepare for feeding activities. If the daily activities of ‘chaotic’, irregular, your child will tend to experience anxiety.
Learn to control himself
Your child can not control himself, can not control what he thinks and feels. Mother can teach self-control by helping to calm down. Hold your child or a hug. The more calm persaannya, your child will learn to control himself. When can control himself, then the child can cooperate with other children, to overcome frustration and resolve conflict.
Your child may experience feelings of frustration and anger, if not able to do something to be desired. He would roar, scream and even kicking. Parental attitudes necessary to cope with temper tantrums, depending on the problems facing the child. Mother can distract your child by objects or other activities. If this does not work, pretend to ignore it while still at his side. When the child saw his mother did not give attention to the ‘protest severity’, usually he will live by itself. When your child is more calm, give hugs and little understanding.
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