Social skills must be honed through the example of parents who are good at hanging out. Like any type of children aged 3-5 years old you are, you’ll want to give “capital”, especially for those who will enter kindergarten. What is it?
1. Warm and loving. How children interact with the environment depends heavily on the influence of parenting and relationship with his mother and and father. Warm relations can be strengthened, among others through a variety of joint activities and of course play. Based on the study, children who frequently play with their parents skillfully mingle with friends his age.
Parents who are warm and skillful socializing also have children who like to laugh and easy smile. As a parent, you should avoid criticizing the attitude of love for children to play, and be responsive to the ideas he advanced.
2. Practical hints. For beginners, children need your guidance on how to start a friendship. Give practical guidance on how to greet others, give a positive response to the greetings of friends and how to interact in play activities together. The easiest way, of course, by example.
At any age, you’ll want to lay out an example of manners and behaviors that support bersosialiasi with the people around him. One of the important social skills are also taught the ways of solving problems, for example, by negotiation, and compromise.
3. Get used to hang out. There is a good idea early on your agenda for the little guy a chance to socialize. Thus no longer socialize with new stuff for the kids so scared.
Usually for toddlers (0-3 years) it is enough with peers around the neighborhood or a cousin. At the age of the children (3-5 years), it could not hurt you routinely ask your friends to play with their children at home or at friends houses, for example, by designing a kind of play date.
You can also schedule a specific day
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to bring children to the playground or playing with kids his age around the house. Positive experiences interacting with kids his age encourages children to socialize more often
4. Invite a friend. Maximize the positive interaction of the child and his friends while playing together at home, among others, by providing a variety of materials and activities. If the child has a new idea and its material is not available, you can buy it first.
Encourage children to develop activities that can be done with a friend who will be invited. Make a list of toys and materials are available and craft activities that may do the toddler with a friend
As a first step, design a short play activities. Although the first experience playing with friends at home fun, toddlers still have limited durability. Besides being tired, the kids usually can not bear to play more than 1 hour nonstop. He took a break to rest, eat, drink and even sleep in the afternoon
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