Understanding your child.
Most working parents fail to spend time with children, from an infant age and as the time goes by they have lost their special moments. Children need their parents the most at a young age from birth till preschool age, this is a crucial time for parent and child.
Your child needs attention, love, and affection, a mother’s love is what a child should feel from day one, and in many cases this is not practised in our lives, understandable of the situation, parents got to work but try to find the time for your child.
A child is disciplined at home, not at school, and this can only come from the parent. Years later you will realise that if you had spent more time with your child then maybe this and that wouldn’t have been. Raising your child is sometimes difficult process, but with both parents involved it can be a simple task. If your child has a good childhood then facing adulthood won’t be a bad one.
Troubled families have children that are lonely and mostly depressed. Issues shouldn’t be hard to solve, you made the choice of being a parent so it is time to focus on your contributions. Children learn from their parents, don’t blame your child for your wrong actions, responsibility comes from you so learn to show it from the start.
Parent and child must understand, communicate, and trust each others thoughts and be concerned about what is important. Make sure your child has good friends, and trust your child when going out to parties, and trying to have a normal social life, this will allow a high self-esteem and communication will be easier than you thought so.
Published in: Family