Daughter

A (daughter,girl,child) is not simply a member of a certain family, but also she is the object of spreading and keeping beauty in and around the whole atmosphere of the family campus. But the thing is that the family is such a thing that the birth of a girl is not taken not in the same way of thinking by all families irrespective of class, religion, economic condition etc. A number of such cases and incidents are found to be there in the newspapers and magazines where it is seen that the girls are the burdens for the family in both after and before marriage.

In a family where it is found that all the are the sons, the family arrange ‘puja’ for worshipping to the (God,creator,almighty) by asking a girl child. In most cases it is found that the girl child is felt top be an ornament to the family. A daughter, as she grows older day-by-day, she becomes a matter of tension for the family members that she is being suitable for marriage. There it is a time for the family to seek a groom for their girl to be married. Another thing is that the groom or his family may want a number of things as ‘joutuk’ that is prevailed in most of the societies as a culture. In some society it is found to be more, where the groom’s family uses to demand a lot of valuable things from the bride’s family. After considering all the demands done by the groom’s family, the daughter is married to the boy anyhow. In particular instance, it is found that some grooms start demanding again another things or money from the bride’s family. However in this situation, this matter becomes to be a problem which may not have a solution within a day or two.

The Government also makes some laws in this regard in order to close this system. But yet, the intelligent never try to stop this practice, they never want to understand the daughters with sympathy.