All gone and all grown up and we are done.
Let me say this all my babies are all grown up and believe this they all come back for help and that’s OK for me because mom and i can sit and talk to them for a while .So let me start with when they were all in the house .I had to work while mom stayed home oh it was hard to do. but we got through there was times i had to call off because we had to take the kids for a check up and yes scared of getting a shot well the boys were OK but the girls they had to scream as loud as they could .we try ed to quiet them but the nurse said hay kids do scream .so when we got home the boys would tease them because of there shots .another boy would go over his friends house and the few was left would be holy nuts they were just kids when school came we were vary happy about that yea some of the teachers wold call and say can you talk to your son because he is causing the other boys to throw food at lunch .mom told the teacher dad would take care of it .oh dad when he got home mom told him and you know what happen next trouble dad would make him stay in his room for a day with no TV or games the boy said dad what did i do dad said its not what you do its what you did at school and then he had to think about it until he said he was sorry to the teacher .so now let me get were they started in high school .after a few months one son says dad im in love and the only thing i could say is oh boy yea oh boy.one of the girls told mom she likes a boy so i ask mom what are we going to do she replayed we will have to let this play out and see what happens so after a year or so our son that was so in love got his heart cut out and he got really mad at his self that he didn’t want to date for a while he said dad I’m going to play the field our doughtier broke it off with the boy she liked so much so the years went by fast and now we are grandma and grandpa of 9.see if they can put up with the things we did the very last to move out was the youngest daughter she didn’t like boys until she was about 16 or 17. after she graduated high school and she told us she had been seeing a boy for two years or so and she really loves him .i had to sit down and talk to her about it because things happen for a reason i guess. well she is in collage now and moved out and can you belive this the boy is cheating on her and i would love to tell her but some how i really cant because i don’t want to hurt her .i try ed to explain to her that first loves almost never last.she says oh yea dad mine will .well its kinda hard to see your kids get hurt but sometimes you got to let it happen if they dint learn life on there own they will never know what to do .so now that mom and i are alone we have to clean up after what they left behind mom calls it trash i call it history and we laugh . we done our jobs as a parent and all i can say is if you need mom and dad we are here for you .
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