A sense of respect for each mortal that you have to do.
The debate on the division of housework, finances are also problems of a child to be the discussion of the conflict. However, if you are comfortable with the debate on a topic that was discussed previously. Ladies, move! do not let the same problems that will make you and your husband the strained relationship. Fair fight, but a clever way to resolve a dispute with a happy ending. Apply the following ways that endless debate in the domestic relations complaints.
Such problems are often complained to her husband, who is more concerned with the outside. They believe that housework is a shared responsibility, it is a growing demand for participation took part.
The solution, do not expect your partner to change the tone of command, who accused him. According to her friend Susan Dutton, CEO ThinkMarriage.org, the debate often occurs due to start with discharging the wrong word. Added by Susan speak softly and a little ‘humor more would break the ice. Say what you want housework. Or maybe you can start sharing what to do jobs. Do not be too difficult, given the time it is an easy job for him. Start slowly so that your partner does not feel “slave”.
Second Frenzy of your partner
When his girlfriend, would you state your full rights as a person should ask dinomersatukan. Activities, golf and bowling with his friends are too busy to do it rare at home. And you begin to put the suspicions against him. He has already forgotten, or do not care about catching his homeland, to you, and worry in the presence of a third. Cheering not to think negatively about him!
The solution, which serves drinks and hot water in the tub for a warm welcome to him. Served as if today is the day, so the two of you. Then you start to express your true feelings. Say you jealous of his friends, who spend more time trying to sympathize with him. It also reveals that you are as beautiful as before, the sensation that hit him away from you. The words that you’re accusing me kindly, does not necessarily change radically. But at least make you think and reflect on your complaint. In fact, they believe that you are jealous of it seems very simple and natural. See the differents!
These problems often lead to major conflicts between you. Different views on the need and how to make financial arrangements for the limitation of top of the screen and a partner. Do you think that any of you to be impulsive spending. In fact, between you and your partner begins to feel dishonest because of this. Do not go.
The solution, talk about your salary or earn each month. Begin to set aside money to be saved and printed. You and your partner should start getting used goods, the existence must be purchased. Do not forget to include all expenses not appear suspicious of each other. Sometimes you can compromise for jewelry or clothes that you buy. But not too often buy things that are not useful. This makes you and is honest and open in dealing with finances.
Be the role of children for parents, a high value on family life. However, with different ideas, you and your husband would not be about the best way to educate children to discuss. An example, if your husband still allow your child to school a cell phone to school, and it does not matter to her. This can cause conflicts between you and your husband.
The solution, you must consider that either you or your husband definitely wants the best for the child’s life. Do not act as if you are the best are right here. Children need both parents, the role of orientation on the right track. Get used to talk about you and your partner and think about the future for growing children. If the husband to give advice, do not be afraid to try first. He had the right intention of educating the child.
5 Sexual Relations
These cases are often very frustrating for couples. Different levels of desire, as this is a conflict that often occur to do. If you really want, while their partner is tired, uncomfortable feelings arising from them. They feel abandoned, and that he felt pressured by your desire.
The solution, I recall the deeper things. Sex is not the pleasure of intercourse alone. To hear it, both must have similar feelings and mood. You have a contract there is no sensation of discomfort caused by the refusal, and no longer a force in it. If you really want to cuddle with my husband, other ways to approach him. Sex is not the only option in a relationship.
There are interesting things that result from differences in family background. The traditions are borne by the family or your family, not necessarily suitable for you and your figure. Thanksgiving ceremony which began with breakfast with traditional pumpkin pie can be normal for you. But what about humans? whether to accept the tradition that he considered it a taboo?
The solution, only that it is necessary and your partner. Revered. However, his family and your family a unified whole. You and your family are no longer two, but in the end. The problems that can occur in families, and to be your problem. So if you have it, a sense of respect for all humans, you have to do. If you can accept as your partner, certainly accept that his family is in fact part of his life.
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