Complaining is common in everyday life.
Complaining is often a sign of blockage of the positive energy to perform an action. People who complain usually do not know what to do. But there are also people who like to complain. Complaining becomes a habit. There are they complaining about, including the little things that they should be overcome. People like this actually have been clogging them with positive energy, negative energy, such as laziness, boredom or reluctance.
Apart from all that, in time we will be visited by someone with a myriad of complaints. Perhaps the most complaints we hear is our spouse, children, siblings or our parents, and co-workers, subordinates, superiors and even neighbors. In fact, maybe we will hear the complaints of the new people we do not know, like, in a vehicle, in the market, or wherever. Do not be discouraged, understand it, it’s much easier to complain than take action. Complainer complainer’s face it-it. Here are some tips that hopefully useful for you when dealing with complaints of others.
1-Why not become a more wise?
Hear the complaint often frustrating, because we ourselves might
have more complaints. However, do not trigger ignored
complaints of others. Think about it, why would someone complain to you?
Is not it a sign that she trusts you. Should not we try to be more wise with respect to the complaint.
2-Watch and listen to complaints.
There must be something that you should look behind the dozens of complaints that flows from one’s speech. Of the thousands of complaints, there may be one of two that is true. Indeed, more complaints that could be forgotten. However, taking into account the complaints of others hone your sensitivity to the feelings of others.
3-Respect other people’s feelings.
Dealing with complaints of other people trying to respect their feelings. Not easy to understand the feelings of others, but if you are sensitive enough you can grow your empathy towards them.
4-Do not pretend to pay attention.
But do not pretend to pay attention. If you believe that their grievances should be noted, give a genuine concern. Listen carefully, stare back at them to show that you really pay attention, give a little touch to express your sincerity.
5-No need to give advice.
Occasionally someone complains, and does not intend to seek advice. They just want to be heard. Prepare yourself for not giving advice. You never really know what had happened and how to overcome them. Just show that you understand their concerns.
6-Remove the plug positive energy.
But if you know what is really being faced by the complainer, and you know how best to deal with, a good idea to give advice. All that should aim to get rid of negative energy that blocks positive energy. However, we rarely actually really understand what happened. Only give suggestions and advice if requested.
7-If you do not have enough time …
You know you should pay attention to their complaints, but you do not have enough time. Try you continue to receive their complaints, but seriously saying that you do not have time. Promised her free time where you can receive their complaints.
8-If the complaint is being a bully …
If the complainer was only spending your time, then do not hesitate to say that you do not have time for that complaint. Indicate to whom he should tell his complaint. It’s all you have to complain about, so you do not need to complain after that.
Published in: Consumer Information